- Beyoncé, OUT Magazine (via owning-my-truth)
fun fact: you don’t cure depression by telling me i have nothing to be sad about
another fun fact: you dont cure anxiety by just getting up and doing whatever it is that makes you anxious
Now I’m legitimately curious as to who this is. You seem to know me well enough or you’re just observant. Hmmm. And if you’re being serious, I don’t want to get married until I’m around 28 and I certainly don’t want to marry someone who is anonymous. Either way haha, glad I could help c:
Thank you so much! This message made my day, dear. And I’m so glad I could help you. If you need to talk again, I’m always willing to help. You don’t have to be anon but if you feel comfortable that way, then that’s okay. And marry me oh man you don’t know what you’d be getting into! Haha but a hug would be welcome c:
Darling, if you kill yourself soon you will miss so much. Holding someone and hearing their heartbeat. When the leaves change colors in autumn. Apple picking. All the first dates you have yet to take. All the hands you haven’t held yet. Laughing until you can’t stand and you think you might just pee your pants. All of the movies you haven’t seen or books you haven’t read yet. Falling in love. Even better, realizing someone loves you. Snow on Christmas day. Travelling to foreign countries. Owning your first house, and although it may be a fixer-upper, its still your home. Decorating that house. The melancholy rain of April. The flowers in May. The smell of summer. Singing your favorite songs. Seeing your favorite band in concert and singing a long because you have memorized every word in yours bones. Coffee in the morning. Tea when you have a cold. Cursing the sun because it burns your eyes. Helping others. Allowing others to help you. Coming home to someone you love. Starting a family. Your children’s graduation. Summer nights with your best friends. Healing. Looking in the mirror and loving what you see. Smiling. Smiling so much your cheeks hurt. Happiness. So happy you cry. Strength. Knowing who you are and where you stand. Adventure. Good memories. Making even better memories. Love. Hate. Warmth. So much warmth you feel it in your toes, darling. Forgiveness. Understanding. Growth. Change.
Whether all of these things sound wonderful to you or none of them do, it doesn’t matter if you choose to end your life. You could accomplish all these things or accomplish none, but you won’t have the choice either way if you end it all, dear. I don’t really know what to say or how to help you and I know this is cheesy. But there’s no huge reason I can give to you to make you choose life. Because its a bunch of tiny little things; tiny little moments and feelings that make up life. Whether they’re good or bad, how could you not want to stick around and find out?
Here are some nice gifs just for you, dearie:
And if you need to speak to a professional, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
And here’s a nice place just for you: